Reading around

[interget_rs1]

haven't posted on here in a LOOOONG time.

But reading around in this forum, why are you all so eager to have girlfriends at a young age? I even read a few threads where the couples weren't of legal age to drink, yet they were in committed relationships with marriage as the goal. Girlfriend this, girlfriend that. Wouldn't it be nice to be able to date multiple chicks at once and not be tied down?

Sorry for seeming ignorant, but live your lives, get through school and get into the career YOU want before actually settling down. Don't be so eager to stay with one girl because she gives it to you good.

A fisherman doesn't only catch one good fish.

[wesside]

lol you gotta learn somehow and some ppl just are not good at having mulitiples. I seem to go thru women too much and wish I could just find a good one now but haha shit man years of pimpin wears ya out. I just turned 27 in may. Read thru my bedroom mistakes thread it's a few years of antics n laughs

[NegroDamus]

It's like gambling, people should have quit long ago when they were up, but kept playing because they thought they would hit the jackpot.

I been with my lady since HS(I'm 25), and I can't picture myself with anyone else. I'm not married and don't plan on getting married any time soon, and I agree people get married way too quick or have kids. You have to establish a real relationship, and that takes years.

I watched my dad date multiples for years after he divorced my mom, yea he was good at it and they were usually hot stuff but really all he got was pussy and problems. Grown women are fucking loco, usually because they been around the block and got used by dudes like Wes and now have baggage that will never be unloaded. Yea you might get to be the user but your future lady is probably being used by someone like yourself right now.

Get a good one early and keep her.

[wesside]

Originally Posted by NegroDamus

It's like gambling, people should have quit long ago when they were up, but kept playing because they thought they would hit the jackpot.

I been with my lady since HS(I'm 25), and I can't picture myself with anyone else. I'm not married and don't plan on getting married any time soon, and I agree people get married way too quick or have kids. You have to establish a real relationship, and that takes years.

I watched my dad date multiples for years after he divorced my mom, yea he was good at it and they were usually hot stuff but really all he got was pussy and problems. Grown women are fucking loco, usually because they been around the block and got used by dudes like Wes and now have baggage that will never be unloaded. Yea you might get to be the user but your future lady is probably being used by someone like yourself right now.

Get a good one early and keep her.

Your right bro I've had alot of pussy but I've had tonz of problems I had a girl from HS to 24yrs old I was married too and as bad as I thought that was it was actually alot better then now these bitches are crazy and have lots of baggage and the ones that are younger and don't probably end up with some when I'm done with them. I've been trying to find someone to settle down with and it's not happening or I do then there just fucked up and I run or I get back into pimp mode shit don't mess it up man

[NegroDamus]

Originally Posted by wesside

Your right bro I've had alot of pussy but I've had tonz of problems I had a girl from HS to 24yrs old I was married too and as bad as I thought that was it was actually alot better then now these bitches are crazy and have lots of baggage and the ones that are younger and don't probably end up with some when I'm done with them. I've been trying to find someone to settle down with and it's not happening or I do then there just fucked up and I run or I get back into pimp mode shit don't mess it up man

Yea man, temptation is a muther fucker like no other but I have been striving to keep temptation at bay for a long time now. Really when you are young not doing stupid shit and letting your weener do the thinking is hard, real hard, but in the long run it pays off. My favorite technique is out of sight out of mind, very simple concept and it works. I'm not saying I don't look, but I gotta stop when you think about it too long and the voice of temptation starts trying to persuade you.

What I have come to realize and I have to constantly use to battle the temptations, is the fact that what I really want is a life partner, someone who is down for you, someone you can truly trust, and most important someone who can understand my thinking and actually comprehend what I'm saying when I actually speak about my thoughts. That shit is important more than anything, nothing is more irritating than trying to talk to a chick and they don't have a fucking clue what you really are talking about, or just agree with you when they didn't comprehend it at all. And her being sexy is a huge +

The time I have spent building my relationship is time well spent, on a person worth spending it on. I know enough women my age to know that what I have is hard to fucking find.

[SuperAkuma]

I've only had ONE GF and she is now my wife. Meet her in HS and that was it. Do I regret not getting a chance with other girls? Yes. Do I have temptations? Yes? Do I regret marring her? No. Like what NegroDamus said, temptation is a bitch. But at the end I am happy with who I am with.

My advice is to try and enjoy life. Don't stress too much about getting a girl when you are young(under 18). But on the other hand, if you have one and if she is a good girl, don't be stupid and think you can treat her like shit. I know a few guys that wish they didn't fuck up.