turbo and wastegate--
www.majesticturbo.com
I believe theres one in FL.
Intercooler--junkyard, pull one off a starion and get it modified to fit your needs.
Oil lines and vaccum hoses--any hydrolic shop.
Manifold--www.importparts.com talk to Ben.
Pipes--any fabrication shop in your area.
FMU--just about any classifieds section on a honda board. I know alot of people are going hondata so they are ditching their FMU's.
hope this helps.