[hobie237]

so last night my friends were being drunk and stupid...

i dont have a problem with that, i do it too. however, our dorm has suffered a lot of damage due to drunken stupidity that ends up being charged to everybody. i know who does some of it but i dont say anything because i'm not going to be the rat.

last night one of my friends puked in a water fountain, the only one on my floor. my other friends just laughed. and i flipped a shit in front of everybody and just walked out... not sure where i was headed but whatever...

i almost lost my girlfriend (she is the best thing to ever happen to me) right then and there cuz i was being ridiculous, but i think when other peoples stupidity affects my quality of life and my wallet i have a right to be pretty pissed...

anyways, i just learned that i need to deal with anger a different way... any ideas? was i wrong to be pissed? what do you guys think?

 

[misterjover]

so last night my friends were being drunk and stupid...

i dont have a problem with that, i do it too. however, our dorm has suffered a lot of damage due to drunken stupidity that ends up being charged to everybody. i know who does some of it but i dont say anything because i'm not going to be the rat.

last night one of my friends puked in a water fountain, the only one on my floor. my other friends just laughed. and i flipped a shit in front of everybody and just walked out... not sure where i was headed but whatever...

i almost lost my girlfriend (she is the best thing to ever happen to me) right then and there cuz i was being ridiculous, but i think when other peoples stupidity affects my quality of life and my wallet i have a right to be pretty pissed...

anyways, i just learned that i need to deal with anger a different way... any ideas? was i wrong to be pissed? what do you guys think?

You need to master the art of jerking off young Jedi.

 

[BlueBallz]

so last night my friends were being drunk and stupid...

i dont have a problem with that, i do it too. however, our dorm has suffered a lot of damage due to drunken stupidity that ends up being charged to everybody. i know who does some of it but i dont say anything because i'm not going to be the rat.

last night one of my friends puked in a water fountain, the only one on my floor. my other friends just laughed. and i flipped a shit in front of everybody and just walked out... not sure where i was headed but whatever...

i almost lost my girlfriend (she is the best thing to ever happen to me) right then and there cuz i was being ridiculous, but i think when other peoples stupidity affects my quality of life and my wallet i have a right to be pretty pissed...

anyways, i just learned that i need to deal with anger a different way... any ideas? was i wrong to be pissed? what do you guys think?

"Shit Happens"...remember that phrase whenever some
idiot pukes in a water fountain :rolleyes.

 

[Jree$e]

so last night my friends were being drunk and stupid...

i dont have a problem with that, i do it too. however, our dorm has suffered a lot of damage due to drunken stupidity that ends up being charged to everybody. i know who does some of it but i dont say anything because i'm not going to be the rat.

last night one of my friends puked in a water fountain, the only one on my floor. my other friends just laughed. and i flipped a shit in front of everybody and just walked out... not sure where i was headed but whatever...

i almost lost my girlfriend (she is the best thing to ever happen to me) right then and there cuz i was being ridiculous, but i think when other peoples stupidity affects my quality of life and my wallet i have a right to be pretty pissed...

anyways, i just learned that i need to deal with anger a different way... any ideas? was i wrong to be pissed? what do you guys think?

I hate drunk people... Like you said...When other people screw up around there. it affects you quality of living. if your friends can't respect that then don't invite them over. If you would of lost your girlfriend because you got pissed about them screwing shit up then you dont need her...Thats just my opinion. Who the hell breaks up with someone over that?? Unless you were in her face cursing her out...then i could see her being mad...My advice to you: Don't invite your friends over until they can respect where you live. If a neighbor catches your friends messing something up then it falls on your ass and you might have to find a new place to live..

As far as dealing with your anger...Like "BlueBallz" said ..one of my favorite phrases "Shit happens"..things are going to happen that you dont like...getting angry and acting up only makes them worse. When you feel yourself getting angry..walk away before your actions make the situation worse...It's okay to be angry. Our actions when we are angry is what gets us in trouble...

 

[Integravtr]

You need a new friend and you need a new gf

 

[hobie237]

You need a new friend and you need a new gf

i can understand that my gf was pissed...she wouldnt want me to flip out like i did at her...and it scares her when i get pissed... i've been known to break desks in half, and shes a small girl...

that i need new friends is a good point............


but we're all stuck here in the dorm till the end of the semester

any ideas how to live with them???????????

 

[Tony Bolony]

whoever puked in the water fountain, find out where they live, go into their dorm, and take a shit in their shoe.

 

[hobie237]

i know the guy, we hang out, and today he felt so shitty that i think he learned his lesson not to drink that much again, and he cleaned out the water fountain with a whole shitload of bleach

 

[Tony Bolony]

you should still shit in his shoe

 

[hobie237]

i would shit in his shoe, but i really dont want to sink to that level, plus i would rather things just end now and not deal with this shit in the future

 

[playindagamewell]

I hate drunk people... Like you said...When other people screw up around there. it affects you quality of living. if your friends can't respect that then don't invite them over. If you would of lost your girlfriend because you got pissed about them screwing shit up then you dont need her...Thats just my opinion. Who the hell breaks up with someone over that?? Unless you were in her face cursing her out...then i could see her being mad...My advice to you: Don't invite your friends over until they can respect where you live. If a neighbor catches your friends messing something up then it falls on your ass and you might have to find a new place to live..

As far as dealing with your anger...Like "BlueBallz" said ..one of my favorite phrases "Shit happens"..things are going to happen that you dont like...getting angry and acting up only makes them worse. When you feel yourself getting angry..walk away before your actions make the situation worse...It's okay to be angry. Our actions when we are angry is what gets us in trouble...

+1!

i'm with him!

 

[Integravtr]

i can understand that my gf was pissed...she wouldnt want me to flip out like i did at her...and it scares her when i get pissed... i've been known to break desks in half, and shes a small girl...

that i need new friends is a good point............


but we're all stuck here in the dorm till the end of the semester

any ideas how to live with them???????????

She is a small girl? do you break her in bed too lol j.k

If they are you roomates you can always do something to piss them off and offer that you will stop if they stop the things that annoy you.

Go get a guitar and start singing your ass off while they are sleeping, see how they like it when you dont respect thier space. Fight fire with fire.

 

[hobie237]

if i had a guitar and/or knew how to play i would do this...

but i think i will take ur advice and a. play loud music late at night b. not be quiet when i get up to go to class and they are still sleeping and c. continue to have sex with the gf on their chairs, desks, carpets, etc

 

[95integrars]

so last night my friends were being drunk and stupid...

i dont have a problem with that, i do it too. however, our dorm has suffered a lot of damage due to drunken stupidity that ends up being charged to everybody. i know who does some of it but i dont say anything because i'm not going to be the rat.

last night one of my friends puked in a water fountain, the only one on my floor. my other friends just laughed. and i flipped a shit in front of everybody and just walked out... not sure where i was headed but whatever...

i almost lost my girlfriend (she is the best thing to ever happen to me) right then and there cuz i was being ridiculous, but i think when other peoples stupidity affects my quality of life and my wallet i have a right to be pretty pissed...

anyways, i just learned that i need to deal with anger a different way... any ideas? was i wrong to be pissed? what do you guys think?

i take anger management twice a week. i've learned a few things to deal with my anger. you should try talking to a counseller. you weren't wrong to be mad. everyone gets angry.

 

[emptynoise]

dont drink from water fountains anyways, they are gross. but talk to them about it, they probably dont think that you care. talking solves alot of problems.