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Sometimes I REALLY miss my ex... She was the love of my life, I still do love her, and I think I always will. We were real good together but she made the decision to go to school in NC before we got serious... so the long distance thing didnt work out, even tho we tried. We talk every noe and then, but it only seems that she talks to me when shes lonely or having guy problems... I put on a front and act like I dont care, but every now and then(like now) it comes out that I do... Its just hard... now when I meet girls at school, I still compare to her.... Its been over 2 years and Im still not over it... someone shoot me, haha.. certain songs make me think of her, just mainly songs Id listen to around the time we broke up... especially Black, by Pearl Jam.... If anyone has a cure for this shit.. help a brotha out :(
 

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honestly, the only cure is time. I can somewhat relate to your situation in a weird way. You can try not talking to her because that only frustrates you more, but I know you won't. You just have to hope that you will meet someone very special. You'll know it when you dont have to compare her to anyone.
 

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I understand what youre saying.. Thing is.. we dont talk that much now(even tho out of nowhere she IMed me today), but now and then this comes up... as far as meeting someone just as special.. hasnt happened.. and its gonna be a close call, know what I mean... This girl was good :(
 

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I'd just try to forget about her bro, focus on your car.. buy yourself something that takes a while to install. Yea it is hard to forget bout girls and shit, but i've had nothing but bad experiences. But ya.. chick i liked, i just deleted her outta my head, outta my phone, outta my msn. No good dwelling on something that could of been.
 

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I understand what youre saying.. Thing is.. we dont talk that much now(even tho out of nowhere she IMed me today), but now and then this comes up... as far as meeting someone just as special.. hasnt happened.. and its gonna be a close call, know what I mean... This girl was good :(

I know what you mean, and I can definetly feel for your situation. It always feels that when you meet another girl that you imidiately stick them next to the ruler of this girl. I mean its hard not to when you have someone that you make this connection with that almost seems perfect. I can't offer much advice because I don't know how to cure this, but i can appreciate how you feel. Lets have a drink at the e-bar together
 

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It sucks when you don't talk to someone you used to talk to alot. This chick used to phone me 3 times a day.. then her phone bill went up to $300 cause of me and her dad said she couldn't talk to me, since then it's all been downhill, i don't even get instant messages on msn. So ya.. i kinda know what your feeling.
 

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Yeah.... I see what youre all saying, but this isnt as far as deleting her outta my head, its passed that... When you find the "one," which she I THINK she was to me, its not as easy.... this isnt the 8th grade love thing, this was real... I mean, I KNOW she still loves me, shes told me many times... and I can tell by the way she talks to me still... It goes both ways for both of us... but I mean I just miss all of that, A LOT... she was great, and it was a good thing that we went through, her moving away on her own, we both grew a lot since then, but its a shame we cant be together... and now shes got a BF so I hear.... and I see shit in her away messages and her profile bout him.... gets to me............................................................................................................................................................................................................................................................................................................................................................................
 

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Yea well chick i was talking to ended up getting a boyfriend then he cheated on her. I actually felt better. Why? cause she picked a piece of shit over me, her fault. But i've never had a relationship or anything, so don't bother listening to me. But ya, atleast she still talks to you.
 

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its sad to say, but I think im rollingdown this same path, I am in love with this girl, and shes leaving in the fall for college....150 miles away, not too bad but its still pushing it....if everything goes good, and im put in this same situation, im gonna die when the time comes...... I cant make it without this girl...
 

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Stop talking to her, throw away everything that reminds you of her. Block her on msn or whatever to stop communicating with her. If you talk to her and blah blah blah, your just gonna dwell on her. Occupy yourself with the stuff you like to do and hang out with your buddies. Try to flirt with other girls and go on dates. You will forget her in time.
 

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See thing is... Im not "hung up" on her to the point where I think about it all of the time, and Im constantly down and so on. Its just at times I get down about it, and its not all that often. Hell I met this girl at the bar last night and we really hit it off, Im having a great time here at school.. I was just down about it at the time and posted to vent... thanks everyone for your support and advise ;)
 

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That's good man. Yea, I sometimes think about girls of my passed but fuck them lol!
 
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Only time will cure that. Just do you for now. Don't let her go completely. Who knows she may be the one. The one may come along, or be right beneath your nose. That man upstairs is the only one w/ answers and your time will come.
 

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CarbonEK96 said:
Yeah.... I see what youre all saying, but this isnt as far as deleting her outta my head, its passed that... When you find the "one," which she I THINK she was to me, its not as easy.... this isnt the 8th grade love thing, this was real... I mean, I KNOW she still loves me, shes told me many times... and I can tell by the way she talks to me still... It goes both ways for both of us... but I mean I just miss all of that, A LOT... she was great, and it was a good thing that we went through, her moving away on her own, we both grew a lot since then, but its a shame we cant be together... and now shes got a BF so I hear.... and I see shit in her away messages and her profile bout him.... gets to me............................................................................................................................................................................................................................................................................................................................................................................

Man you've been infected by the love bug hardcore, but don't worry because there's plenty of medicine for that:

1. Hardcore Porno
2. Meeting other chicks and getting blowjobs
3. Listening to the Beatles
4. Playing online shooters
5. Chaotic masturbation
6. Banging your best friend's sister
7. Playing the stock market
8. Getting high + any of the above
9. Stop contacting her and move on
10. Banging your coworkers
 

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I saw you were jammin Pearl Jam - Black, and I just wanted to say im jammin the Aaron Lewis version of it.

Ya man it sucks when you got a good one and shit happens to mess it up. Life is a motherfucker, and truth be told you might never find someone as good as her, but like someone said.. "its better to have loved and lost, then to never have loved at all."

keep on keepin on man :tu
 

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digink said:
I saw you were jammin Pearl Jam - Black, and I just wanted to say im jammin the Aaron Lewis version of it.

Ya man it sucks when you got a good one and shit happens to mess it up. Life is a motherfucker, and truth be told you might never find someone as good as her, but like someone said.. "its better to have loved and lost, then to never have loved at all."

keep on keepin on man :tu
I ilke the version a lot.. Aaron Lewis did a GREAT cover on that song... real easy to play too... The best version is Pearl Jam live in concert with Dave Matthews.. try to dl it... the file I have(Pearl Jam w. Dave Matthews - Black (Live).mp3).. its really good...
 

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CarbonEK96 said:
I ilke the version a lot.. Aaron Lewis did a GREAT cover on that song... real easy to play too... The best version is Pearl Jam live in concert with Dave Matthews.. try to dl it... the file I have(Pearl Jam w. Dave Matthews - Black (Live).mp3).. its really good...
Cool ill check it, I love listening to the Aaron Lewis one, man makes some badass music.

I don't even have a girl to relate the song to but I play it anyways haha
 

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Man you've been infected by the love bug hardcore, but don't worry because there's plenty of medicine for that:

1. Hardcore Porno
2. Meeting other chicks and getting blowjobs
3. Listening to the Beatles
4. Playing online shooters
5. Chaotic masturbation
6. Banging your best friend's sister
7. Playing the stock market
8. Getting high + any of the above
9. Stop contacting her and move on
10. Banging your coworkers

yea i agree, these sound like the best cures :)
 

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Ya man, I feel exactly how you do. Like me and my last gf (she was my first love) did everything together. We were so open with each other and didnt hide anything. But we got in a big fight and broke up and she was trying to hang out with lots of other guys and forget about me but then she came running back. She did alot of shyt that hurt me so I can't take her back but she was my first and only love so it hurts so bad to see her every once in a while. Plus, I am trying to date this gurl right now. Used to be my best friend and we always wanted to go out but never had the chance to. And I was talking to her alot (this new gurl) and spitting lots of game and I ended up hurting her by somehow getting into bed with my ex a couple days ago. I don't know how it happened or anything and I would never do something like that to this gurl, she's so different from all the rest. But ya like sometimes when I am with this new gurl, the old gurl always comes into mind and some of the shyt that we did together. I can't get rid of it. But I confessed this shyt to the new gurl how I messed around with my ex and it just made our relationship stronger. I am getting over my ex but I hate it whenever I try to act tough and brush it off and not talk to her anymore. She always calls me or asks why we still can't hang out and be friends! WTF :mad But ya as soon as you find out how to get over it... lemme know because this is 10 times harder than I thought it would be.
 

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hahaha or buy mods for your car... fuck can't wait for a new paint job,rims,and a drop, then VTAK swap. Driving by then will be an addiction.
 
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