Thanks guys. I was originally thinking about a dark blue like the DOHC blue and then thought about just polishing it, but then decided to go with black. It looks nice and lots of my highlights on my car are black. Anyway, here's how I did it:
I used "plasti-kote Engine Enamel". Used "Low Gloss Black" on the black part and then "Clear" over the entire thing. Basically I took off the valve cover after several hours of letting the car cool down with the hood open. (Also I put down a layer of tin foil and then several towels over the head so nothing could get inside the engine in the meantime.) I took the valve cover inside and proceeded to sand it down. I had several bubbles and chips in the paint, so I sanded those off. I was going to sand down and polish the whole thing, but didn't have the time nor the patience to do all that. So I took some scotch tape and taped off the "H", "VTEC", and "HONDA MOTOR CO." and then took my exacto knife cut the edges off so that the tape was only on the very top of the lettering.
I then cleaned it off real good, took it to my balconey (I live in an apartment) and started painting. I did 2 coats of black that night, then 1 more coat of black after work the next day. Then I took off the scotch tape and put on 2 coats of clear. Waited a couple more hours, put a new gasket on, and reinstalled.