dude i so didn't know we had this thread or i completely forgot about it or i would have posted my monday night jail experience here. i'll add my story to the collection tomorrow when i have more time.
she's awful and confused, it boils down to the kids. we're nice to each other everything appears normal to the kids for the most part except when she doesn't come home one night a week or so. she takes care of them and plays with them during the day and i have my fun with them at night then i go to bed then she comes in sometime later. less stressful this way and no broken home for the kids. i'd do anything for them and that's why i'm doing what i'm doing now, they love her and like hanging out with her i won't make them choose and neither one of us will agree to sleep in a house without them or wake up without them. plus i know she can handle them while i'm at work because her g ma can run by any time, i just can't trust her beyond that time limit, she gets bored too easy by the time i get home and she's itchin to leave or do something and that's when she gets in a bad mood if she feels stuck somewhere. this way they see the good side of her, and when she wears down i'm home to take over and she can do as she pleases. sad but simple. i have too many health problems right now to be by myself anyways, i need alot of help and she does help me, nobody else would dive into my situation with me that's for sure.Hold on i thought it was back on?
It's off again? :confused