Civic Ex Chick·
Would you stay in a relationship with someone you really love, even if the relationship is going nowhere?
Dead as in no future. Just kinda hit a plateau, and that's as far as it will go...Team_Carnage said:"relationship going no where" like how? Definitely no future together wise? or Just kinda dead as of right now (waiting for a spark)?
We really love eachother, and I could spend the rest of my life with them. But, it's just not going to happen. They'll never be at that point.hobie237 said:well, do you love the person or is it just routine?...
and yeah, if the relationship is really going nowhere, no plans to spend the rest of your lives together or whatever, you might as well move on to somebody you can really hit it off with and live happily ever after...
Civic Ex Chick said:We really love eachother, and I could spend the rest of my life with them. But, it's just not going to happen. They'll never be at that point.
LOL. No, it's not a threesome. It's just the two of us.hobie237 said:"they???" is this a threesome or something?
jk... if you see the writing on the wall, walk away, learn from it, see what you want and what you dont want, then find somebody that is what you want...
try talking to bunny13.... she can tell you all about this situation
Well, when you put it that way, it makes more sense.playindagamewell said:been there.. done that...
it hurt but it was better off having left it then to continue wanting something that i wanted alone... ya know?
gsrboy171 said:it will be a wast of time
just go and have sex with someone else!!!
^And got w/ someone better---->Team_Carnage :cool ... *Don't mind me as I pop my collar* :lolplayindagamewell said:you also can't see it like its' your fault for wanting there to be something more but the other person not wanting more... people are different
most people are progressive and sometimes theres people that aren't.. you can't think your at fault for being progressive or that theres something wrong with you to make the relationship not be wanted to be progressive from both ends.. :noo for the longest i used to think it was me.. or something i wasn't doing right.. it took me forever to realize wasn't me or anything i could control or change etc.. and thas when i was finally able to say aiight.. im washing my hands of it...
It's not that there's no excitement or anything like that. We have an absolutly wonderful relationship and we love eachother very much. If he could stop letting life happen, we would have a "perfect" relationship. It's just that he likes things the way they are and will never do anything to change them.Diana said:If you feel the relationship is going nowhere then you are just letting yourself be held behind in life when you could be with someone who adds that lil sparkle to your eye everytime you see them, even after 50 years. Obviously it seems more like a friendship type deal if you love the person, but being with them isn't exciting anymore. No, I personally would not/have not stayed in a situation where I felt as though it has plateau'd because what's the fun and enjoyment in that? It's your decision to make.
you have to enjoy the simple things in life. relationships dont change within a day. some days you feel a connection and some days you dont. And the days you dont is how you really feel about the SO. just listen to yourself, if its time to move on, go ahead no one is stopping you. Honestly, relationship nowadays dont work out anymore because someone like You feel like its ok to leave without any particular reason.Civic Ex Chick said:Would you stay in a relationship with someone you really love, even if the relationship is going nowhere?